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Welcome to Rocky Oak Homestead™

A quiet, peaceful sanctuary from the chaos of everyday living in a world on the brink of insanity! A place where we prepare for the worst, but hope for the best!

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Thursday, April 7, 2022

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Until Next Time... The Homestead Lady

Monday, March 14, 2022

It's who I am

So often over the years I have met different people that claim would love to have lived in the Pioneer era....they have their 100 year old farm homes, and their homes all decorated with antiques and some even have a rich history of farming in their family...they have large acrage and some how they think this entitles them to call themselves 'old fashioned' or 'simple people'...the funny part is, is that these are also the same people that drive huge gas guzling SUV's, have manicures weekly, wear flashy name brand clothing and carry and the latest and greatest Iphone...I  have to chuckle at these people as they are plugging away on their iphones rattling on about their pioneer spirit...LOL...alrighty then...These people are seriously only 'playing' at farming or 'pioneering'...mention being off the grid to one to of them and they look at you as if you are a 6 eyed, 3 nosed, horned alien...they own 3 hens, 2 goats and live in a 300,000 dollar home with a 6 figure income and claim its not much money....they make sure the hen house looks "pretty" and the goats are well hidden in the back 40 so the neighbors don't see it and think they are 'white trash or beneath them'....they feel this world will go on like it has for the past 40 years and they have no idea about prepardeness...to them it means having a several thousand dollars invested in the stock market or in a savings account...mention the word survival and they immediatly turn and run...and to think I wasn't even holding a gun at the time...LOL...My point in this?...Having a pioneer spirit is truly who you are...not what you do, what kinda home you live in or what you have....you do things not because they are being done by others and sounds cool, but because it is deep within your soul to do these things....you prepare not because its a new movement or fad, but because it makes sense...the bible tells us to be prepared....you feel a deep connection with the earth and critters...you long to live off grid and experience life on a more simple and sustainable level...you couldn't care less about iphones, ipads and owning a kindle...when you hear someone 'working on their apple', your mind goes to 'butter and pie'...lol...you spend your days figuring out ways to organize so things are simpler and more efficient...You get excited over seeing a new hen laying her first egg or watching the marvel of a chick hatching from its egg...you have no clue about name brand purses and shoes...you live to feel the sun on your face, the dirt on your hands...you look forward to spring and digging the dirt and planting your food rather than getting up and running to the local supermarket and mall...One of your greatest joys in life is hearing a rooster crow to wake you up rather than waking to the beep of an electronic device...you love hard, laugh alot and live simple...your friends are like you...you have no use for the silliness that others occupy their lives with...we homeschool so our children learn our core values and the value of hard work....our down time is not spent at the local mall or pining over magazines like better homes and gardens or getting our nails and hair done...nope...we spend our time sitting on the swing watching the clouds float by...we dream of our futures, but not of the new boats or bigger house we will own...nope...we dream of how many pigs we can fit in a 30 by 30 pen and how much money it save on meat, or how we can expand that greenhouse next year, or how many more raised beds we need for those 100 tomato plants...Our lives are different....we are not like those "entitled" pioneers of today that believe cause  you live in a farm house with some land and decorate with antiques and have ancestors that wore pioneer clothing that you somehow were handed down a 'pioneer spirit'....Sorry to say it don't work that way...No one in my family is like me...lol...I am quite unique in the way I live, think and live my life...I am looking forward with anticipation of being off grid and as self-sufficient as we can be...we go 'chicken' shopping and sometimes "calf shopping"...I haven't been in the mall in 25 years!...I am still living...we are not in debt up past our eyeballs to finance our life...we live on cash only..no checking account, no credit cards & we are fine...we totally understand the value of a dollar...we save for the big things and pay cash...the way it used to be done...we use the barter system alot...We believe that society will be at some point forced back to the way it was in the days of old...before the industrial era, before everyone competed with everyone else...a simpler time...not easier...but simpler...I look forward to it...it's who I am...

Wednesday, March 9, 2022

Life in Pictures

These pictures show what we are about and who we are..click the picture to make larger...

I’m here!

Until Next Time... The Homestead Lady

Friday, November 26, 2021

Just checking in

It’s a cold and crisp morning here on the homestead...a hint of smoke fills the air as I open the door to let the dog out....I hear the fire crackling in the stove and see the glow or orange through the glass...I smile...it’s peaceful...joy fills my heart. There’s just something about a crackling fire that warms the soul.

While I don’t like winter and cold I am grateful this year that my family is alive and doing ok...my grandson was not expected to make it is now 6 months old. Challenges lie ahead but we are grateful for today!

It’s been another hard year and my family didn’t gather for holidays this year, due to covid and some of us have health issues that put us at higher risk. While I missed the tradition of cooking and gathering I would miss my loved ones more if one got sick and didn’t make it...I respect differing opinions so please respect mine on this topic. *smile* We are grateful for FaceTime, this gives us a small way to stay connected and see one another. 

Our greenhouse thus far is doing well and we continue to do what we can to prepare ourselves for whatever might come our way in the future. I predict things will only get worse on many fronts and I hope people prepare the best they are able.

Our kids should be over here by Christmas. It’s been a long journey getting them moved over here. The electric has been the biggest issue, according to them they are months and months behind. Hard to believe in the tiny area in which we reside. But what can ya dođŸ¤·‍♀️...wait, that’s all ya can do.

As I close this I want to say...be watchful, be vigilant and pay attention...things are going to get worse. Listen and read between the lines. Prepare what you can, think ahead...

Until next time...


Thursday, November 4, 2021


We have been working a lot lately. Still working on getting the well, electric and septic hooked up for the kids to move over here. We are making progress albeit slow. We all have to keep in mind you can’t rush these things...these things take time and with the rainy weather we have had it puts us even further behind...sigh...

The greenhouse/hoophouse is doing amazing thus far...we are hopeful it continues to do so. It’s a nice feeling growing your own food. We are living in a world I never thought I’d see and I expect things to get worse...I’ve struggled with anxiety a lot lately...I think projects help keep me focused and grounded. I hope all of you are doing well & staying safe! I’ll post more later...for now I leave you with a video of our greenhouse.